confused

looks like we're going to the gym tomorrow. I didnt bring it it up...and was fully prepared to hear her tell our saughter that she'll see her the day after tomorrow, since Thursdays are my all day visitation.

She came in, sat down on our couch...chit-chatted about different things including her mom who she hasnt spoken to in a week and who called while we were chit chatting.

I was surprised that she would sit and talk like she did given how things went yesterday...so damn confusing. At any rate, I didnt pressure her to talk or engage her as much as I listened and tried to empathize. I told her it made me kinda sad that she doesnt get along with her mom or her sisters. I can tell it bothers her too, but she seemed to shrug it off.

Anyway, when she got up to leave for work she said something like "what time are we going tomorrow, 9:30?" I was caught so off guard, the only thing I could get out of my mouth was "yeah, if you still want to go." She said soemthing like yeah and we discussed my calling her in the morning to make sure she was up. (She slept in this morning and was an hour and ten minutes late picking our daughter up...and she even called me to ask why I didnt call her when I saw she was already a half hour late. I reminded her that she got mad at me the last time I called to see if she was on her way and given that yesterday didnt go so smoothly either I didnt want to bother her.)

So yeah...I guess we're going to the gym tomorrow morning.


Me - 32
EX - 26
D - 3

BOMB: 11/02/09
EA/PA confirmed 1/29/10

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