Dont' warn him or anything just go out. You need to show him you won't put up with smoke screens or vague text messages... He needs to start telling the truth and being specific. Show him you wont put up with obscure communication.
He's tryign to keep you on the defensive by being value... Just go out to show him you won't put up with it.
You told him you didn't want to be contacted so show him you won't accept him challenging your terms.
