WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

Need some advice please...

I'm not looking for legal advice, but more from a MLC DB perspective..

Now that I've been given a reprieve (of sorts) on a possible immediate custody court battle, I've started to think a little clearer about it...

I believe everything happens for a reason so I started to wonder what the reason for the "scare" was. It could be a reality flash for WAH, or more importantly, it could have been a "sign" to me that I need to get custody nailed down to prevent a future problem...?

Perhaps it indicates the path I must follow next...?

I think WAH would lose the court case because of his recent crazy acts (AWOL with no contact info to name one), angry behaviors and no-shows at appts, so they would likely give me sole custody w/access. (I'm seeing a lawyer on Monday for feedback about that) The loss would really upset him...

My question is this:

When the alien returns to earth do they see the acts that LBS had to take as protecting their family? Or do they see things like custody processes and separation agreements as us letting go at the time or consequences of their actions?

Could the action be part of WAH downward path to bottom? (I know it's subjective but I'm just looking for informed opinions)

Also, I've read on here that whatever we fear the most is likely the direction we need to take...

Any/all comments welcome on this as it is new territory...