Last night I did tell my H not to contact me for awhile, unless it had something to do with the kids or bills. H just texted me:

H: We need 2 talk tonight. It's important
Me: About What
H:I will tell u when I come over

I haven't replied to this one yet, and not sure if I should or what I should say. My first instinct is to reply with "If it's not about the kids or bills, I don't want to talk right now". Help, what should I do?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10