Your's was very obvious as not having a snowballs chance in hell of being restored.
I am not one to give others false hope where there is none.
The cold hard facts are that by the time most people enter these forums, their marriage is to the point already of being doomed. However, I can say that I have witnessed but a few that survived. And I know of several now that I think can be turned around. What is more important in my opinion is the saving of the individual and allowing them and their children to move through the crisis in tact.
Absolutely and now looking back I now wish I had the guts/backbone/whatever to stand up and move on 2 years ago! You saw it along with everyone else...and I really did too. I just wanted it so badly...just like Kevin does in his own situation. Look at me, now 2 years later working like heck trying to detach and put some boundaries in place. I am not saying for Kevin to give up, just start rebuilding his own life and not make the same mistakes I did.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
