I do choose to. I may need to lean on someone from time to time to borrow some of their stength.
Reread the advice you have given, make a summary of what your C told you and put it on the mirror where you will see it EVERY DAY (or your wallet, the idea is just to see it as a reminder).
Your motivation is admirable. You have a lot of work to do to change your own habits. The first step is becoming conscious of what needs to change, which you are doing. Things will not change overnight for either of you, you need to consciously change your behaviors, form new habits.
I have a lot of work to do on myself. I have been controlling and needy (especially with physical touch). I need to be stronger. This will take time, a lot of time.
It's something that requires determination, focus, and patience.
I have to work on focus and patience, determination I have in spades. Focus is where I am severely lacking.
Keep moving in the right direction.
No grand promises that you will never slip up again. That things will be different now.
I know that I will slip up. We all do. I just hope that my slip ups will be less and less frequent as we move forward.
Slow and steady progress.
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Me 33 WAW 32 S12 S4 S2 M12 T14 Not wanting to ever give up.
