Is it me? Or is it really everyone else? lol.

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So given my thoughts on that, I don't think there was anything to stand for with regard to your second H.

Ok...so what is the difference in my M to exh and yours? Besides the addiction issues its kind of the same thing. OM/OW...being nice when they need something and blowing you off when they don't. That is my point. From an outsider looking in its easier to see the obvious. I didn't want to give up on my M either but it came time to either sink or swim and he was pulling me down and not thinking twice. I hate to see that happen to you.

As far as my first M...well we were young and stupid and both say that was a mistake D. Nothing I can do about it now.

My pastor didn't say to move on to someone else....just to let go and move on myself as exh has abandoned the M.

I just hate to see you going thru so much pain and agony. I wish your W would come back and be this transformed woman. Statistics are not in that favor though and I want to see you start to rise up.