Is it me? Or is it really everyone else? lol.

[K4D]

If worst came to worst and W D'd me and married another and the catholic church looked at my M and said it was and is valid, that settles the ultimate issue that remarriage is not a second option. If they look at it and say it is not a valid M, and I mean legitimately can say it is not valid and she has D'd me and remarried, at that point I would have to make a decision whether or not I wanted to hope W would ever come back or whether or not I decided I will move on and form another M down the road. But if the church decided that my M was not valid, then W really wasnt my W.

At this point, I choose to consider my M valid and will unless told otherwise by the catholic church down the road that it is not.

Kevin