The issue I have with what you posted is you are FEARFUL to tell her you don't have a job because "no woman wants to be with a guy that does not have a job".
By not telling her you don't have a job out of FEAR of what she will think (or not think) you are attempting to control how she reacts.
If you don't want to tell her than don't. Just be sure you are not telling her for the right reasons. If it is none of her business then great. If it is out of fear over what she will think, well, not so good.
I admit that there is a lot of fear in this as I believe it would be held against me and another reason to not look back even though I am trying to rectify the sitch and get another job.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
