Yeah, I see what you mean with OW's H. Given the situation, it's probably better to avoid getting in the middle of that whole thing.
Definitely a good thing that he apologized. Taking responsibility for his actions instead of continuing to make excuses for them is a great first step.
You have DB'd very well and even if tonight's meeting is not per DB, there are limits to what we can and should put up with. One of the greatest things we get out of DB, if not our H's, is an inner strength and respect for ourselves, and you have obviously gained that over these months. Good luck tonight. I hope H responds positively. I know it's not going to be easy to go over all these difficult issues with H, but at least you are coming prepared and know what you want and expect from H. Stay strong!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10