Personally, I would stop having sex with her. I do understand that it keeps a connection, but if it keeps getting thrown back at you down the road, is it worth it?
Round 2, 3 or 20, who knows? I do know from experience if they don’t complete, then the fallout gets worse with the next phase.
I too understand not being able to trust that it won’t happen again. That is a decision you will have to make for yourself, because until she really heals, and you do, if you reunite there is a good possibility of this happening again.
Detatch as much as possible, GAL, minimal contact and letting her work this out on her own while you work on you is probably the only way you will ever really know if you are willing to see what might happen down the road. If you are willing to take the risk again.
It isn’t easy but…
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
