I appreciate the insight. The biggest peice for me is to make sure I am in a healthy state of mind. And it is tough getting there and staying there all the time. I do let things bring me down.

And no, I wouldn't be clingy if she comes back. I am not about to scare her off if she starts making that journey back. I will let her come back on her own terms. I will be happy and I will definitely be praising God and trusting in Him and giving Him all the glory. But I will also be careful in my interactions with W as to not push things and push her away.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...