Originally Posted By: K4D
Anything W does seems to be taken as a complete negative on here. There seems to be no hope that someone can actually change even if it be very slowly. I realize a lot of people say to walk away from this and she isn't worth it.

I say she is worth it. I didn't marry someone that wasn't worth it. She is very worth it. She just went through a crazy crazy outburst for a while.

I truly think she is settling back down now. She is becoming grounded again. She is looking for direction in her life. Otherwise, why start attending church again? I am not sure if yall quite grasp just how big this is. For over a year she would have nothing to do with church or anyone involved at a church. She adamantly refused. This is a turn around for her.


Kevin


Kev here's what I see...Your W could be changing and has some small second thoughts...What you're not seeing is you are not, if she approached to to R I think you would be so clingy it would drive her away.


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

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