Anything W does seems to be taken as a complete negative on here. There seems to be no hope that someone can actually change even if it be very slowly. I realize a lot of people say to walk away from this and she isn't worth it.

I say she is worth it. I didn't marry someone that wasn't worth it. She is very worth it. She just went through a crazy crazy outburst for a while.

I truly think she is settling back down now. She is becoming grounded again. She is looking for direction in her life. Otherwise, why start attending church again? I am not sure if yall quite grasp just how big this is. For over a year she would have nothing to do with church or anyone involved at a church. She adamantly refused. This is a turn around for her.

CG, I acknowledge how it looks to some and how you see it and how everyone else appears to see it.

But I am putting my faith and trust in God on this one. It is kind of like Charlyne says, keep your eyes off the current circumstances and keep them on God. I know this is going to come back at me as detach and let God do his own thing without my involvement.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...