Anything W does seems to be taken as a complete negative on here. There seems to be no hope that someone can actually change even if it be very slowly. I realize a lot of people say to walk away from this and she isn't worth it.
I say she is worth it. I didn't marry someone that wasn't worth it. She is very worth it. She just went through a crazy crazy outburst for a while.
I truly think she is settling back down now. She is becoming grounded again. She is looking for direction in her life. Otherwise, why start attending church again? I am not sure if yall quite grasp just how big this is. For over a year she would have nothing to do with church or anyone involved at a church. She adamantly refused. This is a turn around for her.
CG, I acknowledge how it looks to some and how you see it and how everyone else appears to see it.
But I am putting my faith and trust in God on this one. It is kind of like Charlyne says, keep your eyes off the current circumstances and keep them on God. I know this is going to come back at me as detach and let God do his own thing without my involvement.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...