Hi boys and girls, I am outside my D's gymnastics class and have my netbook with me-it is PINK btw!!!
I took the day off today, called in sick. Took the kids to school and returned home. H didnt ask why or anything, we had not talked about me going. It was a decision I made this morning. We went, he is fine or so it seems and then he dropped me off in a rainy morning at a cafe I asked him to, and...left. He could take the morning off, I didnt ask, he left. I walked 5 kms by the sea, in a very cloudy cold morning and enjoyed myself a lot. Then I bought my D boots and a pair of pants for me, HUGE sales here at the moment!
I felt like I was used today. He said thanks and that's all. But then, I decided that I did what I wanted, and that is fine by me. It goes without saying to support when someone you care about is worried, concerned, upset, stressed. He was scraed as he confessed. I almost told him "if you can have sex 3-4 times a day, then your heart is definitely OK". BUT, I didnt. I am a good girl.
I told him I want us to talk tonight. We have the apt tomorrow and I want to remind him I am expecting some feed back on the questions that were asked last Friday.
Both people need to recognise what needs to be changed and follow through. Ali, I dont know how much slower he can change if he changes. In 2000 we got married, in 2007 he moved out, in 2014? Who knows? I am not holding my breath... K
