Kevin - do you remember what I posted after my H and I went to court?
Yes. I remember.
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Don't think for a second she did not know that she would be taking a pay cut.
She had 3 job offers that were only contracts with higher pay. She didn't want another contract. She wanted something permanent. She didn't want to have to be looking for another job again in 6 months.
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Did you not just say you have not heard a peep from her? Why do you think that is? She is now settled with her job and new house, she knows you have her back with money and she can keep on doing what she pleases.
She doesn't have a new house. She is still renting the one from her parents. She will have to find a new one this summer. And no, I didn't hear a peep out of her until she found out she got the job. On the bright side, she was trying to share exciting news with me in her life. That is a step for her. She would never share much with me in the past. I won't be supporting her lifestyle. I will only help if she truly needs help on a temporary basis.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
