....I will continue to do my 180’s, LRT, and GAL. Now I know these are for me and not him.
....I will be speaking to L tomorrow for legal advice.
I want to thank everyone for all the good advice today.
Good luck to you and stay the course with the GAL.
Also stay focused on your children. A last thing is to remember that as evil as you may feel your husband is, he is still the father of your children and will always be. That is going to be a bitter pill to swallow as your children grow up because that will mean he will be in your life (one way or another) for many years to come. This means that you really need to figure out a way that the two of you can be civil, even when he has betrayed you and proven to be untrustworthy. You might want to write that on a card you keep in your wallet as a constant reminder.
Again, good luck to you.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
