Originally Posted By: Drew
Good for you, SO2!!! I wish more people would stand up for themselves like you are.
Originally Posted By: KerryK
Following Drew again.

SO2 - Keep on this path of standing up for your dignity and boundaries.


Thanks guys! Its hard..and not easy standing up to a guy that has pretty much left his bootmark on my forehead for years.

Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!


hey, try to get that good mood back. I'm glad you unfriended your friend. that's really sad that she is hanging out with her more if she knows what is going on. I know you want to think that no-one understands how it is to be a single mom, but it's different for all of us. I'm sure it's really hard for her too, even if she does get 3-4 days off, because 3 kids would be hard for anyone, especially if they don't have consistency and discipline in the home. so who knows, her household may be worse!! lol The better you are at being consistent and have structured discipline and show your love to your children consistently, the easier it will be for parents. So, think of it this way....your just a better parent! wink


yeah well this good friend was sort of a transitional friend to me when my first exh and i were splitting up and exh and I were dating too! To complicate it even more this 'friend' is also exh's exw1's sister! Go figure that one out! LOL She is also super immature, flaky, and has put men over her children every time! Not a good example and/or someone I looked up to.

Ok, time to go get baby again! smile Oh, I have to switch cars with my mom when I drop baby off so exh does not drive by my house and stop by when baby isn't here. So stupid! I cannot even leave baby with someone without fear of him finding out. He would have alot to say about me leaving her with my 88 year old mother.


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!