Kevin - do you remember what I posted after my H and I went to court? How he was texting me and e-mailing me constantly? Do you remember what happened WEEKS after court when it came time for him to sign the final Agreement? Hours before it was supposed to be filed he backed out and was terribly cruel to me about it. There was a reason he was now reaching out and it had nothing to do with desire for me.
Your W has been pretty open with you about her job search. Don't think for a second she did not know that she would be taking a pay cut. While she was looking and exploring her options for her future she kept you close then asked you to borrow money. You said yes, she could if necessary. Did you not just say you have not heard a peep from her? Why do you think that is? She is now settled with her job and new house, she knows you have her back with money and she can keep on doing what she pleases.