Gee CTH, you haven't learned that you 'should' always know exactly what she wants and needs and that you 'should' always step up and offer your assistance even when you aren't asked? Gee, what ever were you thinking? Oh yeah.........you were thinking she is divorcing you and is now responsible for taking care of the girls and making arrangements for them when well or sick when it is her time with them. Go figure!
Sorry for the sarcasm, but she really has no clue what being D'd is really like does she? She is 100% on her own unless she opens her mouth and says she needs help. Even then, it's up to you to decide if you are going to offer the help or not. She can't demand it or expect it any longer.
The anger today was understandable, but not conducive to co-parenting, as you know. If I could make a suggestion, start working on an email with your expectations of what co-parenting will look like. Invite her to respond with her expectations and then you two can come to some agreement that falls in the middle. Do this in email only. Do not get into discussion on the phone about this.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
