I sent an email to WAH stating that without his feedback/revisions I could not resolve the custody paperwork thing and asked him (again) if he preferred mediation instead of dealing with me directly.
I then called the person I'm meeting for subsidy review and told her that WAH is being uncooperative... She told me that an alternative that they occasionally offer for those in my sitch is for me to get a signed and notarized affidavit that I am the primary caregiver and outlining the visitation schedule and that I am getting no $$ from WAH and that will temporarily allow the subsidy to continue until Fall. A relief to me since I really didn't want to take him to court and be the one to spill the beans on his craziness...
I'm not telling him about the reprieve though since right after I talked to her I got an email from him stating he'd send his revisions to me tonight. I'm not holding my breath, but it would be interesting to see what his view of custody should be considering he barely spends the minimum with them now...
I know a big issue with him is that he wants the freedom to take the kids wherever he wants (even out of country) without my consent being required...
Stay tuned for more drama (I'm sure)...
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
My Sitch in MLC - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Main=45253&Number=1901148#
