Trying to move on

[ClingingToHope]

W calls me at work. She was talking about D10 when I, perhaps I shouldn't have, said she should have asked if I could help.

That set her off. She said she shouldn't have to ask. I should have offered.

I told her that that's what I've been doing for the past seven years and she told me eight months ago I didn't do things for her out of love, I only did them so she'd become so dependant on me she couldn't leave me.

Conversation was going downhill from there and she said "again it's me not communicating so it's all my fault."

That's when I lost it and said, "you know what, it is." And hung up.

She called back five minutes later after talking to D10 to ask if I indeed had stopped at home. I said yes. She said "thanks" and hung up.

I don't know if I handled it well. I was trying to say if she wants/needs my help, she needs to ask. I'm not going to jump in and offer because I can't read her mind.