Back here, for the second time... #69

[AliSuddenly]

Hey M.. yep, follow your intuition hey, thats what Pisceans do best If you feel you are on the 'right' path, thats good enough for me.

BTW, I had a little look at your husbands chart after the things you said about his father and the model of R he learnt from him (or his parents). I don’t know if I have the correct time/place of birth for him (11am, Athens?) but if I have, or near, then he has his Venus exactly conjunct Saturn. I could say a lot about this! Symbollically he has Saturn literally sat on his Venus... I find this quite interesting (wow, a literal textbook of someone being ‘blocked’ in expressing their love). Saturn represents the father in our chart too.

You know how we were discussing whether or not people can really change, or if they do? The good news is.. with Saturn, we ‘learn our lessons’ as we age and mature, that’s the whole point of the planet in fact.. it’s the planet of wisdom and maturity and well, hard lessons! Wherever Saturn is, is where we have our “cross to bare” – and his is attached to Venus meaning his life lesson, or challenge is connected to his lovelife/woman in his life/relating to woman in his life.

I feel more hopeful that he can learn from his mistakes and change.. but the other thing about Saturn is, its not a quick fix planet like Jupiter.. we’re talking SL-O-O-W and it also doesn’t come about easily or effortlessly, or through luck like it might with Venus. Rewards given to us through Saturn only ever come about through our own hard work and applying oneself to the task to achieve success...

A good example is, the Saturn Return at 28-30 is often a time when people leave behind their 20's and just 'working' to actually applying themselves to a career ladder, or get promoted. For woman its a time when they often marry/have kids and also, for both, a time when people can lose a parent (therefore literally making them mature by losing a generation above them and them no longer being the child). Saturn issues go in cycles of 7 years - akin to the "seven ages of man".
xxx