I meant to respond to your post upthread. No, I don't expect to ever trust BF 100% again. Is that for the best? I'm not sure. I understand that complacency is bad and that I need to work at a R all the time. But I am sad that this is part of our history and I will never see him the same way again. Yes the R will undoubtedly be stronger and better if we stay together. I just sometimes think it would be better to start over with someone new so that baggage isn't there. I don't think it would necessarily be easier with someone new, just one less horrible thing to deal with.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g