I like what Ronald Reagan said, about the old Soviet Union:
"Trust . . . but verify."
Puppy
Yes- I hear you wise one , but I don't wanna be checking up on her. That's kinda like not really forgiving and if i can't do that then I need to MOVE on.
****NO RECONCILIATION, FOLLOWING INFIDELITY, SHOULD BE ATTEMPTED WITHOUT A TRANSPARENCY PLAN. Transparency should be humbly asked for, by the betrayed spouse, and the formerly-cheating spouse is free to then offer it or not, as a way to foster healing and rebuilding the trust that they broke.
But if you're viewing it as "checking up on her," you're not viewing it correctly.
Puppy
*****
Or do you mean kinda like looking in from time to time? Cause I can do that very easily, this town does that for me!
