When you see him you look him in the eyes.

You have done no wrong. Always remember that. Show your strength now.

Adultry is his burden to carry. Not yours. Yours is betrayal.

Always remember that. And find strength in it.

Expose to

Family and friends who are friends of the marriage. Ones who will help you heal.

OWH... Phone him. And tell him. And listen to him. Its intel gathering. Also let him know that you would like to keep in touch if he wishes.

Then do not call him back. And let him deal with it on his side.... Do not tell him about here. He can figure that out by himself.


Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!