cannon, Be ready for exactly what you wrote, that is exactly the spew my wife said almost word for word. It is all lies and deceit. Do what Puppy and sandi say. Do not give her information on how or where you found your info. Stay with your boundaries.
I like some of these quotes from Dr. Huizenga: It must be easy for you to lose yourself with him. • You don’t seem to think much beyond your relationship with him. You must wonder how long that can continue. • It is very normal to throw yourself at another person when you feel so empty. • It is very easy to question a marriage when Prince Charming comes along. • You can throw away an old pair of pants when you get a new one. But, the new one also becomes old. • Your need to fill your emptiness is overriding your integrity. • It seems to me that there is this great hole in you, and you think the other person will fill it. • Do you ever wonder whether he is as great as you think he is? • You seem to give all your energy to him and not have much left. • Do you REALLY know what you are doing? Any doubts?
