i can't wait for the boundary discussion. "He's just a Friend...I have no intention to be with him...there are so many obstacles(distance children jobs) between EX and I...It's not about him, its about me...i love you as a man, just have no connection with you...you invaded my privacy...what do you know?...how did you find it?...did you have someone watching me...you can't talk to OM W...you can't tell my friends/fam...it's not your place to ask me to stop communication with him"
A: I agree. I cannot control you, nor do I have any desire to. You are a grown woman. Just know that I will NOT live in an open marriage, nor one where my own wife is lying to me. It's incredibly disrespectful. It's only fair that I let you know that. What you DO with that information is entirely up to you."
