ssmguy said: I know what "I can't get you out of my mind" love is like, but few people could say that about their spouses after 10 years, though they'd still say they love them.
Well my husband and I have been together a total of only 6 years, so I can't speak for after 10 years just yet...but we do have the "I can't get you out of my mind" love for each other every day. We say this to each other every day, and it has not diminished one bit since we were first together. I literally rush into his arms every night, and wake him up to loving, tender intimacy every morning. We write love emails or texts or make sweet phone calls every day. I get butterflies when I see him enter a room, and he says he gets them as well. The people who know us personally get tired of all the lovey-dovey stuff...but at the same time, they regard us as an example of how love can be.
I will place a money bet that we'll feel the same, if not even stronger, in 4 more years.