Another WAW, Advise Please

[cannon]

I makes perfect sense, harsh or not. Might be too late, but i'm in.

i can't wait for the boundary discussion. "He's just a Friend...I have no intention to be with him...there are so many obstacles(distance children jobs) between EX and I...It's not about him, its about me...i love you as a man, just have no connection with you...you invaded my privacy...what do you know?...how did you find it?...did you have someone watching me...you can't talk to OM W...you can't tell my friends/fam...it's not your place to ask me to stop communication with him"

i had the kids return her call last night, and then light talk for about a minute. she asked me to call her today sometime. i'll wait for her call. several texts to OM last night and more today.