I agree although it may feel like there isn't hope there is. He is still hung up in the affair. I agree once it fizzles because more than likely it will, he can get back to reality of things. Because in my opinion, there isn't anything 'real' about affairs. Once that dies his thinking won't be so clouded. Of course you need to do what you feel is best for yourself but I would give this some time to cool down. I have been in this position. It's tough. I would recommed reading "Not Just Friends" Shirley Glass I believe. WONDERFUL book, helped me a ton! Amazon should have it cheap if interested.


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