Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Just updating...
Monday's seduction methods: had music playing when WH arrived from work. The aroma of sauteed onions and garlic hung in the air. I was wearing perfume he likes. I recorded some shows we both might like.

When WH walked in, he said "smells good in here!" (the food)

About 5 minutes after WH arrived, he commented on the music...asking if it was pandora (internet radio). I said yes, and that S and I were playing and I realized the TV was on but I wasn't watching it so I switched to music.

5 minutes ater I left for my pilates class...PILATES ROCKS! It felt soooo good afterward, like I had received a massage except I had exerted my ab muscles the whole time! Yeah, the instructor only had to come over to me once but went to another lady 5 times!Of course I couldn't lift my torso up off the floor when we were supposed to "roll up" but I will get there...lol

So I arrived home while WH was putting S to bed. I was getting myself an ice cream cone when he came downstairs and filled me in on the night. I went to the living room and he followed. He hung out for another 15 minutes and during this time said he noticed I recorded some real estate shows. I remembered them as home improvement shows, but sure enough, when I went to check the DVR they all had some words in the title like "sell" "real estate" "moving" haha! I just said that there were some remodeling tips I wanted to see (true). He didn't mention the sci fi show I had recorded! But at least he noticed the DVR which means it's a good idea for me to intentionally record certain shows.

He also told me that I didn't need to keep recording "Chuck" because he knows I don't really like it, right? (testing me I think to see if I would be true to myself) I honestly replied that I was looking for new shows and still likes to have that one as a "back up" because I like it "okay."

We also laughed at something about S and then he left. He never asked me what class I was taking even though I have only told him I was taking a class--never said what. And I leave the house fully dressed, not in work out clothes.

I felt it was a success-that he at least commented on the good smell, music, TV, we laughed (like old times)!

So today I didn't see him but he sent his usual text asking how S slept and I reported then complimented him on the good idea to give him a little more formula to tide him over until 5 a.m.

In the afternoon he sent another text inquiring about S. I managed to tell him and then slipped in a comment about how sweet it is when S lights up every time he sees him. He replied "he does the same for you!"

Now tomorrow I will be watching the sci fi show when he arrives, will wear a new blouse I bought, will leave the new bra out on the washing machine, and will be working out then gone for at least 5.5/6 hours. S and I will leave at 2 for our class; usually WH stays till 3:30 but we are kicking him out early tomorrow and next Wed for our class, haha!

My goals include being mysterious, physically distant, and my Art of Seduction goals are the same as well as appeal to his senses, be charming and mirror his interests (but I am only doing the interests that I share as well because I don't want to be phony or insincere).