Oh mb28, now you don't have to wonder, you just have to deal with the harsh reality of your H's tacky actions. I am so sorry that you are having to deal with this. I hope that you will take your time in formulating a response. Please try to regain your equilibrium internally first. That may take a lot longer than a couple of days. When you confront your H, he needs to know that you are totally grounded and confident in your position. Knowledge is power, and right now you have knowledge that your H doesn't.
It's hard to read your sitch knowing that it's probably my turn next. But thank you for sharing your story here and inviting the useful feedback and advice that you're getting.
Be strong.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
