Good work kissak! Seriously woman, you are moving this along very slowly and that is the only way this is going to work. You certainly don't want him turning into a scared rabbit and going back down the hole.

Your walls are up for good reason. You've been hurt so much that you had to put them in place. As long as he isn't doing things to batter those walls they can gradually come down on their own. You have all the time in the world for this. Ease in, enjoy each other, laugh together, spend time alone, date each other.

I'm pulling for you sweetie!!


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!