It's the end of the world as we know it, & I feel-

[mishka422]

You have a very good C BBJ. That is marvelous.

I am totally right there with you on not compensating for Dan's disappointments to the kids and refraining from reaching out to Dan when you feel you need a connection. I battle those things quite often myself. Actually saying the words out loud to Gabe, "I am no longer your safe landing place." got him to (mostly) stop dropping his load of crap on my head when he's depressed. I don't know if he's crying to the broom or anyone, and I frankly don't care. I don't need to hear it anymore.....not my problem. Say it with me BBJ.......It's not my problem. Dan's issues are his to own. Repeat 5 times.

Oh, I'm ready any time girl! Call me up whenever. I'm crashing out on Ambien at the moment but most nights I'm up until at least midnight eastern.