Hi WL! I had some trouble finding you! Im sure that dating an 18 year old boy is trying for a grown woman, especially when he throws fits like a child(which he is!), I wonder how their next interaction played out.
You cant worry about whether she wants to stay or any of that, really its not productive. What your doing seems to be working for YOU and your kids and thats what we need to focus on right now. Maybe some day she will want to get better enough to do the things that she needs to do, but thats all up to her. Let her get sad and see what shes missing maybe reality will set in at some point, maybe not.
BR, Thanks for finding me here... I know your right but you know some days I think I find myself holding true to the "Its easier said than done" lol I know what to do and I can tell myself what to do but yet I find myself doing the wrong things and sitting around wondering if the R will happen...
wrong mindset I know but hey, I guess thats why most of us are here or at least came here.. I just have to get to doing what I know I have to do and stop thinking about her so much.. and a good friend that left his W to M a much younger girl told me as much as he thought he loved this younger girl he was always uncomfortable in public with her and the age gap got to him after awhile too.
I decided to do something 180 for a change and I told W I cant take the kids for her this weekend (her weekend to have them) She took it very well, thanked me for letting her know.
I felt good about this because im very nice and I often go above and beyond for people (Im not the type who gives the shirt off my back but I will often help where other people wont) plus I do have plans yet again
the down side is D8 is really getting under my skin lately she is not listening again and she has been getting an attitude
