I guess I misunderstood b/c I thought she asked you if you were going to book a room but the way it reads now.....it does put a bit of a twist, doesn't it?

I suppose it may be too late when you get my reply tonight, but I think you should respond with, "If you feel up to getting out an socializing". Then you could add what I said about just using that time to unwound with no pressure, and see how she responds. I think her answer will weigh in her decision regarding her following you in a move (if you take the promotion).

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!