I hope you are finding some peace with your choice. What made a lot of my choices & concessions easier during my mediation process, was keeping in mind what would be the most likely outcome IF we went to court.
Keeping 'my worst case scenario' in mind.. knowing that StBX had a lot more to lose going to court than I did.. helped A LOT & I figured anything above that.. was cake.
So if you are at a point where you realize you will get = or more by going to court.. then go for it.. hopefully you can let the anger go & give yourself permission to realize you made the best decision for you... no apologies, no vindictivness (ok maybe a touch).. just acceptance of .. "the next step".
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
