Next steps: Spoke with retirement financial advisor today about pulling funds from retirement account to cover house. Can't do it. Have an app't with other financial advisor in two weeks. Will talk more about liquidating all that I can. Called my cousin who is a D lawyer to get more advice on dealing with the house/pressure from X. Left a message. I have time off next week; will contact local L to get consults, directions, suggestions.
Please help with support that I CAN say "I won't talk about the house right now." I just don't feel confident I have the right to say that, as it is co-owned.
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
