Mhl,

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However, my W doesn't have an apartment or condo, she rents a room in a house with the owner of the house (lady) and one other young girl (28) that rents the other room.

What? That is nutty. Although it makes better economic sense than moving into an apartment at $1,800/month an no income. Strange arrangments for both our W's under any circumstances.

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Enjoy getting your master bed back, be ready for the weird stuff to start rolling in, she may even want you to know what she is doing so as to further push you away to lessen her guilt. Keep us posted.


The W has been over the last few weeks more engaging and friendly to me than anytime during this crisis, however, she has never really show any sign of wavering in her decision, even given her ridiculous financial situation.

Unless she decides to contact me she will have very limited opportunity to push me away any further. We will likely have conversation around bills, mediation and the parental schedule in the next week or two but I intend to minimize contact as much as possible.

You have peaked my interest with the "be ready for the weird stuff" comment. I have kind sold myself on the idea that she may out do me on the going dark thing.

I guarantee you I'll keep you posted. Thanks for the heads up on what I might expect to happen.


M48/W47
M15/T22
S3
D3
In House Separation 10/06/09
W files for D 10/16/09
OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA)
OM2 in mix early Jan.
W moved out 1/26/10
In Mediation (Settlement in prep)