Man, scary stuff. Glad you're getting that taken care of. Glad to hear everything else is coming together for you too.

As far as going into full blown reconciliation, do it when you know it's right. Didn't take me long; we're getting re-married 1st of June.

Ron

M: 47
W: 50
D: 19
S: 16
Grandson: 21 months (now officially our son)
Married: 10/2/89
Divorced: 7/31/09
XW moved back home 11/12
Re-married 5/25/10