Pls help--confused and fearful

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You know, this may be out of line, but I actually look at my first marriage as the studying and test. Next marriage I have will be the actual real world implementation.

I have learned so much from W and the split that it's just unbelievable.

You are a good person DbD and even though we are a few hundred (maybe thousand) miles apart I feel we know each other pretty much. It's been you, me, Newmama and Cutter for a while now., We're not leaving you. You have friends here. How many people in the US or Canada say they know a TRUE Highlander (and you all think you do or are descended from one ... LOL). I even wear a kilt ... yes, I do (okay, the last time was almost 4 years ago at my wedding but I had the kilt on).

Take care DbD. We're here for you. Remember one thing, he can;t hurt you anymore with a divorce than he already has. You are going to get closure, not the closure you want but you will get it. Take care.