But on this website, say "Good morning" and someone will accuse of pressuring your wife! No one falls in love with a selfish, self-centered b-tard.
Indeed. The whole "going dark" thing has been blown way out of proportion. It's meant as part of the LRT, and should be used if your spouse has moved out or made it abundantly clear that they want a divorce -- as in, not in the middle of an argument.
If you are living in the same house and there is no looming threat of D, work on being the kind of person who want to be, and that your spouse wants to be with.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement