I really have to disagree with you about not seeing a MC that does not have children. A *good* marriage counselor will teach you and your H to find solutions. While they may suggest solutions the whole theory behind "solutions based counseling" is to give you the tools to work together to find solutions for whatever issues/obstacles/problems you have. If parenting stress is a issue/obstacle/problem the same theory would need to be taught to you and your H from a solutions based standpoint.
You make a good point. I have spent years in counselling (IC) and months in MC, but I've never experienced solution-based counselling. I can see that it may operate very differently from what I am used to. If I ever had the opportunity to do MC, finding someone experienced in solution-based counselling would be a priority for me.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
