I am trying, thanks for noticing. Had a phone call w/ her on the way home. She said it feels weird, almost uncomfortable when she's around me. She said she loves me but it feels like we've both gotten over each other. I said, you know, you've given me a lot of information that I have to digest and really think about, understand that it will take some time for us to feel comfortable around each other. We have to work at it though. It won't just happen. She jabbered on a little bit and the basic jist of it feels like she wants to be in love but she doesn't want to have to work at it. She loves but isn't in love with me. Sound familiar? I've read where it can take 1-2 years to rebuild a marriage after an affair.
What questions can I ask her or comments can I make to see if she really wants this?
It seemed like she wanted this last night but today, eh, who knows. Hot and cold again.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!