Ok, my creepy stalker news of the day. I just signed up with eharmony a few days ago, and it showed up on my checking account, so I know X knew that. I logged onto it today and it said I was in my account at 3:30 today checking out profiles. I of course was at work. I made the mistake of using one of my kids' names as the password, and I've just changed it. Why is he doing this? Do you think to get info for court? I haven't done anything, and don't plan to date until after the divorce, but I do plan to start dating when the divorce is final. I've had 2 years to get over this.