I really have to disagree with you about not seeing a MC that does not have children. A *good* marriage counselor will teach you and your H to find solutions. While they may suggest solutions the whole theory behind "solutions based counseling" is to give you the tools to work together to find solutions for whatever issues/obstacles/problems you have. If parenting stress is a issue/obstacle/problem the same theory would need to be taught to you and your H from a solutions based standpoint.
While I don't have a child myself I was *very* close to my H's cousin who is autistic. I was a big part of her life since she was 2. I babysat often, I attended play therapy/physical therapy/occupational therapy/audio therapy with her, learned to keep, shop for and cook a gluten free diet and overall spent a lot of time with her. It is NOT easy. It is overwhelming. There were days where I hated myself for it but I just could not wait to be done with her.
It seems you might benefit from a specific support group that directly works with the special needs your child has IN ADDITION to a solutions based MC.
The thing is, at this time, your H has no interest in MC hence the need to stop dissecting him and start working on you and ONLY you.
I didn't think anything negative about your comment on the other thread. I simply was carrying the conversation back to your thread.
