justbreathe, it sounds like you're in a lot of pain. Why don't you come over to my thread where I talk about cognitive distortions? It's not about my sitch, it's a way to help with the thoughts that are so painful for us. I have to work with my thoughts or it's unbearable for me.

I hope you'll stick around. The more I posted on other people's threads, the more input I got on mine.

Take care.


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.