I talked briefly about FaithfulH and Tomato on Saturday to my W. She had asked questions about them since we are all getting together in 2 weeks. When I mentioned that FaithfulH had peiced his M back together and Tomato was working on the same thing, W just got quiet. She did ask me to pray for her friends M again to which I said I will.
Dinner Saturday night was enjoyable. She did talk some about dinners with her friends. She always tells me that me and my friends need to go try this place or that place. At one poin I said why don't we go try one of those places sometime. Not sure why I said it. It didn't get much of a reaction out of her.
I wouldn't tell W you are even on this site...she will see it as you still putting pressure on her, doing whatever she asks, and weak by looking like you cannot live without her. Put yourself in her shoes with her selfish mindset. If you heard that your soon to be exhusband was on a DB site and talking to others about you..you would want to run for the hills!
Ditto on asking her to do ANYTHING with you! Get your own friends and go there.
K4, wth? Even now, you are Still....pursuing...WTH? Come on! Spend your energy on getting a job and a life. You don't offer her anything she's interested in anyhow. And your list of postiives was about how you feel about things or people. Those are not traits, those are your feelings and aspirations. What are your traits? Are you funny? Are you kind? Are you sensitive, strong, disciplined, intelligent, hardworking, ambitious, outgoing, well read, generous, interested, interesting, a free spirit, a loyal friend, which?
Um, we all know you miss your w and want her back. No one, especially your wife, doesn't know that. SIGH...and so it goes. Why you feel it's necessary to post that, in case we forgot, is strange. Kind of like you telling your w, that SHE should go to those places with YOU, instead of you and your friends. She suggested something for you to do to GAL and you made it clear you still cannot do that without her. Super appealing, sooo different than before. CHANGE....or stay stuck. Your choice.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
