Your W who blew you off when you suggested you and her try some of the fabulous restaurants she goes to with her friends, who CHOSE to take a 30K pay cut without asking your opinion about it first is asking you for money? You being soon to be unemployed said yes to this request?
Why WOULD she want you to come home? You do all she needs you to do when she wants and she gets a house and other men all to herself!
She wants the perks of marriage then she works on the marriage. She does not want the marriage, no perks! Unless your children will be going without food or shelter she can figure out a way to bridge the gap in her income.
